Post 16 Mississippi Dawn






by Gina Day  Copyright 2000  (This is an excerpt from my old manuscript, not the current manuscript. )
 

Chapter 1

A thick fog was rolling in.  They could see the fluff a mile or so away, and it was closing in fast despite the distance.  The temperatures had already started to drop, although the sun wasn't setting. 
It was all so surreal and beautiful at the same time that it took your breath away.  The fog was pouring in from the swamps and dumping into the river, then flowing toward the couple as if it was a part of the stream.
Logan and Shealyn were making their way up the slippery banks of the Mississippi River.  Home had always been here in the Mississippi boonies and they loved growing up here; a nice place to raise kids.  The river was always a place of refuge and challenge. Always something exciting going on.
They had hiked several miles and back on the banks hand in hand, deeply involved with some intriguing conversation, and on an occasion, throwing out a fishing line in hopes to catch an addition to supper.  Granny sure could cook and Shealyn was enjoying learning from her.  All she had to do was imagine what Granny might be cooking and she could actually smell the aromas and taste the food.
There had been no fish biting this day, just the mosquitoes. They were content just to have gotten the opportunity to get out of the house for a while, especially with homework and chores to finish.
They scrambled toward the old beater in hopes to get out ahead of the annoying fog. A familiar, yet haunting version of a horn echoed across the once gentle, now splashing, crashing waters.  Like-minded as they were, the deep rattling blasts were sounds that terrified and confused them, so they both turned to look behind them at the same instant. 
The scene produced large goosebumps on Shealyn and later on, Logan would testify he felt his hair stand on end; his hair was thick and shoulder length.  They stood steadfast and attempted to reckon with what they saw.
Waves of mist appeared now to be rolling billows of clouds; piled in layers, one on top of another. The clouds were barreling toward them.  They appeared almost translucent, but not quite, glittering with what resembled diamonds blazing. And with soft edges of pale pinks, blues, and purple hues.  The sight mesmerized them, so neither made a move to bolt toward higher ground.
The ship was very different from most ships around these parts, for they knew just about every one of them and their owners by heart.  It was a safe bet they could describe every ship and boat launched within a 100-mile radius. 
The only exceptions being those which tourist brought in and left back out with on a seasonal basis which you could set your clock by.  Dealers were all familiar and not a new boat or ship came in they had not reviewed.  They loved to visit them in what little spare time they could come up with in between school, work, and taking care of Granny.  This ship wasn’t anything in their sketches or in stock, either.
She was a beaut. At the least, she was definitely a steamship from history’s stormy past.  The ship had a toughened and disfigured, ghostly appearance as if she had been through a battle or two of some sort, yet she still seemed to be an extraordinarily regal and unique steamship no matter where she came from.
She bore masterful and creative carpentry.  There was awesome scrolling ironwork, and weathered carvings intricately detailed with depth so cleverly fashioned that you couldn’t take your eyes off the art. Her flags waved boisterously, each one intact, and seemed to salute them, distracting them, and refreshing their memory of possible danger and doom. She was larger than life; inexpressible in size.
She seemed to be racing the fog too; running for dear life, and dressed for the finish line in all her glory.  She was painted in creamy aged linen, more riveting than faded, and the ironwork was awesome.  It was dressed in the finery of intense reds, golds, purples, and touches of an assortment of greens and browns where the iron art bore leaves and branches.
Shealyn shoved Logan toward the path and took off running as fast as her legs could carry her, dropping, throwing all the fishing poles she had been earlier cautiously carrying as not to damage the newer ones.  It was her best bet, those rods, reels, and cane poles could be replaced. She couldn’t be and neither could Logan.  As far as Granny was concerned, anyway.
Shealyn could hear his panting as Logan sped noisily past the full-throttle gallop she was in.  He leaped high, and onto the ledge of grass and trees above the bank, spun around, and reached down to grab her outreached hands when she was in mid-air.  A quick jerk and her slim body went flying past him in a tangle, rolling several feet before she managed to stand back up and once again, launch into a gallop.
They sprinted toward the beater, looking over their shoulders on an occasion or two, and then once again after they jumped in and slammed the doors. Spitting mud and gravel, off they peeled, bumping and tossing over the ruts.  They were headed out of the inlet, and toward the bridge where the river access led them back to the highway; their way back to civilization as they knew it.  The ship should have been upon them by then.
     Glancing in the rearview and witnessing the scene from a different view, Logan braked hard. He jumped out from his seat leaving the beater still in gear and running.  Shealyn slammed the gear into park to keep it from rolling backward as she bailed out. 
    His mouth was wide open, eyes bulging, and with cap in hand, commenced to scratching his thick curls Shealyn adored and he hated.  He was so handsome standing there in amazement.  She followed his gaze and was rendered speechless at the mind-boggling spectacle






Post 13 Stop Domestic Violence



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10 Ways You Can Help Prevent Domestic Violence Locally

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  • By domesticshelters.org
10 Ways You Can Help Prevent Domestic Violence Locally

More than one-third of women and one in 12 men have experienced intimate partner violence in their lifetime , according to the National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey. Anyone would agree that’s too many. If you’re asking yourself what you can do to help, read on. Below, 10 steps you can take to help stop domestic violence in your community.
1. Know the signs. Domestic violence can happen to anyone—white, black, young, old, rich, poor, educated, not educated. Sometimes violence begins early on in a relationship and other times it takes months or even years to appear. But there generally are some warning signs. Be wary of the following red flags an abuser may exhibit at any point in a relationship:
  • Being jealous of your friends or time spent away from your partner
  • Discouraging you from spending time away from your partner
  • Embarrassing or shaming you
  • Controlling all financial decisions
  • Making you feel guilty for all the problems in the relationship
  • Preventing you from working
  • Intentionally damaging your property
  • Threatening violence against you, your pets or someone you love to gain compliance
  • Pressuring you to have sex when you don’t want to
  • Intimidating you physically, especially with weapons
2. Don’t ignore it. Police officers hear the same thing from witnesses again and again—I heard/saw/perceived domestic violence but didn’t want to get involved. If you hear your neighbors engaged in a violent situation, call the police. It could save a life.
3. Lend an ear. If someone ever confides in you they are experiencing domestic violence, listen without judgment. Believe what they are telling you and ask how you can help, or see this list of 25 ways to help a survivor.
 4. Be available. If someone you know is thinking about leaving or is in fear the violence will escalate, be ready to help. Keep your phone with you and the ringer on, make sure you have gas in your car and discuss an escape plan or meeting place ahead of time.

5. Know the number to a nearby shelter. You never know who might need refuge in a hurry. Keep numbers to shelters (find local shelter numbers here) and the National Domestic Violence Hotline in your phone (800-799-7233).

6. Check in regularly. If a loved one or friend is in danger, reach out regularly to ensure his or her safety.

7. Be a resource. Someone experiencing violence may not be able to research shelters, escape plans or set up necessities like bank accounts and cell phones while living with his or her abuser. Offer to do the legwork to help ease stress and keep things confidential. Here’s a list of items a survivor may need to take with them.
8. Write it down. Document every incident you witness and include the date, time, location, injuries and circumstances. This information could be very useful in later police reports and court cases, both criminal and civil.
9. Get the word out. Assist a local shelter or domestic violence organization in their efforts to raise awareness in your community. Or use your personal connections to start a grassroots campaign. Organize talks at your workplace wellness fair, HOA meetings and church groups.
10. Put your money where your mouth is. Use your power as a consumer and refuse to support the culture perpetuated in music, movies, television, games and the media that glorifies violence, particularly against women.
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Post 12 The Publishing Game/Fern Reiss






Getting People To Your Website:
How to Easily Do Top-Notch Search Engine Optimization
by Fern Reiss, CEO, PublishingGame.com/Expertizing.com
One of the most common laments in the business world is, “But now that I have a website for my book/business, how do I get people to find it?”  Putting up the website is only half the battle; unless people are able to find it, you won’t be improving your business.  Here’s how to fly to the top of the search engines—and stay there:
Optimize for your top keywords
When people search online for your topic, what words or phrases are they looking for?  And which of these words can you realistically hope to ‘own’ in the online marketplace?  The better your choice of keywords, the better your ranking will be.  For example, I advise writers on how to find literary agents.  “Literary agents” is a Google search phase that’s extremely popular—too many other websites are vying for this phrase, so my chances of ranking highly would be minimal.  But if you do a Google search for ‘find a literary agent,’ a slightly less popular phrase (but one that authors still use), my PublishingGame.com site pops up on the first page.
Don’t neglect indirect marketing
Think carefully about how your indirect markets will find you.  For example, the primary market for my Publishing Game products is books, workshops, and consulting for the writers themselves.  But my indirect market is anyone who knows a writer.  This resulted in a whole sideline of products for friends of writers—gift baskets for writers, in prices ranging from $39 to $99, particularly popular around the holidays.  (Try a Google search for ‘holiday gifts for writers’ and see what comes up.)
Put up an online press room
Physical press kits—a fancy folder, glossy photos, detailed bios of company principals, press releases—are passé: Journalists don’t pay much attention to them anymore, and they’re almost always suggested by PR agencies as a way to produce a pretty deliverable without much effect.  But online press rooms can be very powerful. Remember to include high quality resolution photos of yourself and your book; press releases (including press releases that mention your other press attention), and full contact details.
Add informative articles
Next, write a few articles on your niche topic.  Including content on your website that relates directly to your keywords will cause your search engine optimization to climb.  This is one reason why blogs are so effective for search engine optimization; search engines appreciate fresh content, and blogs are an easy way to get new content on a regular basis.   If you’re going to blog, make sure you put in the few extra minutes to both publicize and syndicate your blog. 
Get a handful of quality incoming links
I’d also recommend writing articles for other websites.  Sometimes called ‘online article syndication,’ the more articles you have on the internet that link back to your website, the more likely your website is to rank highly.  For example, try doing a Google search for ‘media attention for your business.’  Even though these aren’t my principal keywords, there are at least three mentions of my Expertizing.com site on the first page of Google! (But remember that the syndicated articles can’t be too similar to each other—that’s called ‘content mirroring,’ and will actually hurt your optimization efforts.)
      
Even before your website is up, start thinking carefully about how people will find it.  And then get out there and optimize, optimize, optimize!
Or enjoy a one-on-one consultation with Fern on how to improve your website and search engine optimization:  PublishingGame.com/consulting.htm.


Fern Reiss is CEO of PublishingGame.com (www.PublishingGame.com) and Expertizing.com (www.Expertizing.com) and the author of the books, The Publishing Game: Find an Agent in 30 DaysThe Publishing Game: Bestseller in 30 Days, and The Publishing Game: Publish a Book in 30 Days as well as several other award-winning books.  She is also the Director of the International Association of Writers (www.AssociationofWriters.com) providing publicity vehicles to writers worldwide. She also runs The Expertizing® Publicity Forum where you can pitch your book or business directly to journalists; more information at www.Expertizing.com/forum.htm.  Sign up for her complimentary newsletter at www.PublishingGame.com/signup.htm.
Copyright © 2011 Fern Reiss

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Post 11 Ditch Clutter to Tune In/Vickie Milazzo







Ditch Clutter to Tune In Your Intuitive Vision

By: Vickie Milazzo RN, MSN, JD
Without even realizing it, we wake up daily to clutter pouring in-constant television or the Internet at home, talk radio in the car, TV news programs at the airport and loud music in restaurants. Soon our senses become dulled and our vision turns lusterless. How can a person connect with their intuitive vision and goals while being constantly bombarded by thousands of outside messages?
Vision is essential to success. Yes, you can stumble on a great idea without knowing where you're going, but in my experience mentoring thousands of people, it rarely happens that way. Successful people look ahead, imagine the future they want, then make it happen through a combination of passion, commitment and intuitive vision.
To conceive any vision you must first get quiet. Remove the clutter and turn down the volume. When you consciously eliminate pervasive noise, silence arouses your imagination. Make it a goal to eliminate clutter from your mind, your day and your life.
I started with my physical environment, which is the easiest to control. I successfully created an uncluttered house and an uncluttered office. Next I uncluttered my mental environment. While I rarely watch TV or listen to talk radio, and I don't crave an hourly update on current events, I have my own clutter addiction to battle-movies. My addiction got so bad for a while that I found myself going to really bad movies, wondering later why I wasted that time and money. I still love going to good movies, but now I'm more selective.
I appreciate that these activities are some of the most common ways to relax. But you cannot wake up to clutter, be bombarded with it all day, go to bed with that same level of intrusion and still have the mental space to connect with your intuitive vision. Choose renewing ways to relax, such as strolling through a park, soaking in the tub or reading a great book.
As with most ambitious endeavors, eliminating all the clutter in your life can be overwhelming at first. The trick is to start small:
1. Clear your space.
Unclutter your physical environment at home and work. Take 10 minutes every day to file that stack of papers that's been sitting on your credenza for months. Devote 15 minutes a day to cleaning out a closet or a room that's only slightly less attractive than the city dump. Don't tackle the whole attic. Start with one corner, then move on to another until it's done.
2. Unclutter your mind.
Eliminate one outside stimulus, one TV show or one chatty phone call. Then eliminate another. Instead of reading three newspapers or magazines, read one. While driving, replace talk radio with inspirational CDs or music that stimulates ideas and opens a space for success. Meditate as you fall asleep or read something relaxing that brings you peace, not agitation.
Be equally selective about how you spend time with friends and family. You might not think of a relationship as clutter, but it can be. Are casual, unsatisfying relationships keeping you from your vision? Would fewer, more meaningful relationships be more helpful? Assess whether a relationship is one that you value. If not, eliminate it or, at minimum, reduce the exposure. Uncluttering is about making choices in all the areas of your mind, space and time.
3. Put off procrastination.
Procrastination leads to worry and anxiety, which is mind clutter. You're anxious about the upcoming meeting because the report due is still rough at best. You worry about overdrafting your bank account because you've put off balancing your checkbook. Instead, just put off procrastination.
Eliminate one area of procrastination each week. Schedule it in your calendar, as you would any important appointment, and when that time arrives, do what needs to be done. Your mind will feel refreshingly alert and uncluttered.
Yet, procrastination is not always bad. I hear people say, "finish what you start" or "you had that idea, where did you go with it?" Every day I wake up with new ideas, but like you I have only 16 waking hours a day in which to do it all. Misplaced stubbornness, as in, "I started it, I have to finish it," can exhaust you as you plow onward in the wrong direction. Selective-intuitive-procrastination allows the best ideas to rise to the top and keeps you focused.
In the emergency room all nurses learn the value and skill of triage. When several patients come in at once, nurses treat the sickest ones first. That's triage. You can triage ideas. All ideas are not equal, so match your ideas to your intuitive vision to determine which to develop first.
Selective procrastination also eliminates unnecessary busyness. Imagine a low-priority task-perhaps starting a routine project or writing a letter. You procrastinate, and at the end of the day, or the week, that situation resolves itself. The project is canceled or the topic of the letter gets resolved with a two-minute phone call. Selective procrastination, or triage, combined with your intuitive vision can eliminate the clutter of unnecessary tasks.
Ditching clutter enables you to tune in your intuitive vision and connect with future success. In turn, your newly awakened senses arouse your passion. You not only see the future you want, you're ready to implement the goals and strategies to make it happen.
Author Bio
Inc. Top 10 Entrepreneur Vickie L. Milazzo, RN, MSN, JD is the founder and president of Vickie Milazzo Institute. She is credited by The New York Times with creating the legal nurse consulting profession in 1982. She is the recipient of the Nursing Excellence Award for Advancing the Profession and the Stevie Award (business's Oscar) as Mentor of the Year. Vickie has revolutionized the careers of thousands of RNs. She is the author of (www.InsideEveryWoman.com) Inside Every Woman: Using the 10 Strengths You Didn't Know You Had to Get the Career and Life You Want Now, coming March 2006 from John Wiley & Sons, Inc. Order this top 5 Amazon.com bestseller now. Reprinting and republishing of this article is granted only with the above credit included. Permission to reprint or republish does not waive any copyright or other rights.
Copyright © 2006 Vickie Milazzo Institute, a division of Medical-Legal Consulting Institute, Inc., Houston, Texas.
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Post 10 Valentine Special



This is a special post for February.  A little of this and that.






Check this out! So easy and creative that you can make it not missing a beat with your writing!



Did you remember the flowers for your valentine?






All our dreams come true if we have the courage to pursue them.




















Post 9 The Black Girl in Search of God and Some Lesser Tales/Phillip Spires




The Black Girl in Search of God and Some Lesser Tales
The title piece in this anthology is a parable on the nature of religious belief. When first published in 1932 it caused quite a stir and I wondered whether the intervening 75 years might have rendered it something less of a shocker. I found that, apart from one violation of current political correctness and a few inevitable stylistic issues, the message had lost none of its poignancy and perhaps little of its ability to shock.

The Black Girl in Search of God is not a novel or a novella. It is not really a short story either. I choose to describe it as a parable because others have, but equally it could be classed alongside Plato's symposium as a vehicle for examining a philosophical idea. It's not a discourse, but it could be a meditation, albeit a rather energetic one. The idea in question, of course, is the nature of religious belief.

The Black Girl of the title is only cast as such, I think, to provide Shaw with a literary vehicle to convey his otherwise naïve questions about Christianity. To this end, The Black Girl is presented as a "noble savage", and thus a tabula rasa. It is here - and only here - that Shaw violates current correctness. The character could have been cast as a child, but then she could not have threatened to wield her knobkerrie, her weapon, and nor could she have been portrayed as bringing no tradition of her own. We must accept, therefore, that there remains a functionality about the role of this character. She does not represent anything, except her ability to ask the questions she is required to ask.

The Black Girl has been converted to Christianity by a young British woman who has taken delight in amorously jilting a series of vicars. She then becomes a missionary, despite her clearly thin grasp of the subject matter. She is, perhaps, an allegory of colonial expansion. She goes abroad to teach others despite not having achieved fulfilment or knowledge in her own life. It might be important that the teacher and the taught are both women.

When her convert starts asking questions, fundamental questions that the missionary herself has never heard asked, never mind answered, she reverts to invention, not scholarship. Shaw's intention is clear. She invents myth to mystify myth. And this cloak satisfies the curiosity of the average Christian, but not The Black Girl, who thus goes off in search of God.

And, guided by snakes, she finds Him. And not just once, because there is more than one God in the Bible she carries. There is the God of Wrath, who demands the sacrifice of her child. When she cannot comply, He demands she find her father so he can sacrifice her. A good part of the Bible thus disappears from her new-found faith.

She meets an apparent God of Love, but he laughs at Job for being so naively and blindly devout. More of her book blows away.

She meets prophets who, one by one, deliver their different messages, most of which conflict and communicate individual political positions or bigotry rather than personal revelation.

On the way she belittles Imperial power and male domination. She learns that most "civilised" countries have given up on God and hears a plea that people like her should not be taught things that the mother country no longer believes.

Scientists offer her equally conflicting opinions. They are careful only to describe, never to conclude or interpret. In a way, they are just modern prophets, each with their own interested positions.

There is an amazing episode where a mathematician implores her to consider complex numbers, the square root of minus x, which The Black Girl hears as Myna sex or perhaps its homophone minor sex, and is clearly a reference to feminism. Along with economic power and male dominance, The Black Girl sees guns as the highest achievement of white society. This anticipates the description of colonialism's trinity in Ngugi's Petals of Blood.

Then, in a strange section, an Arab discusses belief with a conjuror. These appear to be a pair of major prophets in thin disguise. But their discussions merely confuse the girl and their words skirt her questions.

And so she meets an Irishman, marries and settles down. She devotes herself to him, their coffee-coloured children and the fruits of their garden. Note that she does not devote herself to herself. She projects out, does not analyse within. And in this utterly humanist universe she finds not only personal happiness, but also fulfilment and, with that, answers to her own metaphysical questions that religion per se could not even address.

And so, as the parable closes, we ponder whether the Irishman she marries is Shaw, and whether The Black Girl is the questioning, non-racist, non-sexist, socialist and humanist vision of the future he has personally espoused.


Author Bio
Philip Spires
Author of Mission, an African novel set in Kenya